Failure- You are important too....

Failure- You are important too....

SUCCESS - This 7 letter word today has become the biggest parameter of defining an individual. 

I googled to find out what failure is - and the search says failure is "lack of success ". 

I googles what success is and I kept reading endless articles , quotes and experiences on success .

That's what failure is !!!!!

Failure is such a thing that even  google thinks its not important to describe it . 

What is success , how do know who is more successful than the other. 

We constantly keep bench marking, comparing and keep getting into this common and biggest race of mankind...to be labeled as successful. 

Any random person we see , seeming to be happy , wealthy and immediately tag him successful .

I want to ask this to everyone reading this article, in the race of being successful, have we dealt with our failures  honestly and with dignity . 

Or,  we have been so ignorant to our failures , that in-spite of knowing the reasons of failure we overlook the factors easily , and again walk up with our head held high , pretending as if nothing ever happened .

Well , I differ here...failure is the most important factor that gives a reality check ..Failure directly states - whatever we have been doing is not good  enough. 

Failure is  an achievement and an assurance at least we tried. 

We fail and a series of reasoning begins - i wanted to but i couldn't , i tried my best  but i couldn't ...my luck is not good enough etc .

Failure clearly says  - its completely yours....the silence you experience , the loss of desire , the happiness lost , the time that's gone-by  , the efforts that have gone in ..finally yield no result . 

The only one way to overcome failure is to be friends with it . Take care of  it , give it time , understand it and you can build up again .

Let's make it simple ...a small kid may not know what a hot pan is until he touches a hot pan . 

Once he has felt the impact of it , he would always stay away from all things that he sees or assumes is hot .  The impact teaches him and gives him the required experience to decide .

Similarly , the impact  that failure has in each of our lives , makes us realize what we shouldn't be doing and how can we protect ourselves from landing into the same zone again. 

Failure gives us the right experience to decode and move ahead . Be more cautious  , smart and aware the next time .

Treat and celebrate your failure - as from here the real journey begins. 

Failures are important too as they are our real teachers and judge us accurately and prepare us to be the best version of ourselves. 

Take your failures seriously and see the magic begins . 

Wishing luck !!!!

Thanks 

Neha