Dial your own number ...others may not exist !!😇

Missing out on life is a very  frequent thought that runs in my mind these days. 

Weekends increase the excitement and we let loose , unwind , and celebrate ...what ??

Emptiness , Insecurities . Loneliness , Stress !!!!!!

There will be days that will be horrible at work , at home , with colleagues , partner and many like these. 

Life remains unanswered in  most of the situations but  the power to find out - why me is the real question . 

Life today  has become an unending race , it is complicated for most of us . We are juggling with challenges to prove our worth  and to stand out & to do things differently . 
Phone books today may  have 20000 numbers , but can we really dial them all ...can we really share our lives with all . 

No,  most of us cant , and we know this from the bottom of our hearts . 

The truth is only we can deal with our reality and the toughest situations of life .

Stop judging yourself , this is the real concern . We can't be perfect at all times , but we can certainly be real  most of the times .

Be friends with your own-self  for sometime and you wont ever feel like dialing another number when you feel lost .

Trust your feelings , feel the energy , sit quiet and think loud!!!!!! 
The answer lies within . Its all within .

Dial your own number ...others may not exist !!💪😇

Lots of Love
Neha 

Failure- You are important too....

Failure- You are important too....

SUCCESS - This 7 letter word today has become the biggest parameter of defining an individual. 

I googled to find out what failure is - and the search says failure is "lack of success ". 

I googles what success is and I kept reading endless articles , quotes and experiences on success .

That's what failure is !!!!!

Failure is such a thing that even  google thinks its not important to describe it . 

What is success , how do know who is more successful than the other. 

We constantly keep bench marking, comparing and keep getting into this common and biggest race of mankind...to be labeled as successful. 

Any random person we see , seeming to be happy , wealthy and immediately tag him successful .

I want to ask this to everyone reading this article, in the race of being successful, have we dealt with our failures  honestly and with dignity . 

Or,  we have been so ignorant to our failures , that in-spite of knowing the reasons of failure we overlook the factors easily , and again walk up with our head held high , pretending as if nothing ever happened .

Well , I differ here...failure is the most important factor that gives a reality check ..Failure directly states - whatever we have been doing is not good  enough. 

Failure is  an achievement and an assurance at least we tried. 

We fail and a series of reasoning begins - i wanted to but i couldn't , i tried my best  but i couldn't ...my luck is not good enough etc .

Failure clearly says  - its completely yours....the silence you experience , the loss of desire , the happiness lost , the time that's gone-by  , the efforts that have gone in ..finally yield no result . 

The only one way to overcome failure is to be friends with it . Take care of  it , give it time , understand it and you can build up again .

Let's make it simple ...a small kid may not know what a hot pan is until he touches a hot pan . 

Once he has felt the impact of it , he would always stay away from all things that he sees or assumes is hot .  The impact teaches him and gives him the required experience to decide .

Similarly , the impact  that failure has in each of our lives , makes us realize what we shouldn't be doing and how can we protect ourselves from landing into the same zone again. 

Failure gives us the right experience to decode and move ahead . Be more cautious  , smart and aware the next time .

Treat and celebrate your failure - as from here the real journey begins. 

Failures are important too as they are our real teachers and judge us accurately and prepare us to be the best version of ourselves. 

Take your failures seriously and see the magic begins . 

Wishing luck !!!!

Thanks 

Neha