Dial your own number ...others may not exist !!😇

Missing out on life is a very  frequent thought that runs in my mind these days. 

Weekends increase the excitement and we let loose , unwind , and celebrate ...what ??

Emptiness , Insecurities . Loneliness , Stress !!!!!!

There will be days that will be horrible at work , at home , with colleagues , partner and many like these. 

Life remains unanswered in  most of the situations but  the power to find out - why me is the real question . 

Life today  has become an unending race , it is complicated for most of us . We are juggling with challenges to prove our worth  and to stand out & to do things differently . 
Phone books today may  have 20000 numbers , but can we really dial them all ...can we really share our lives with all . 

No,  most of us cant , and we know this from the bottom of our hearts . 

The truth is only we can deal with our reality and the toughest situations of life .

Stop judging yourself , this is the real concern . We can't be perfect at all times , but we can certainly be real  most of the times .

Be friends with your own-self  for sometime and you wont ever feel like dialing another number when you feel lost .

Trust your feelings , feel the energy , sit quiet and think loud!!!!!! 
The answer lies within . Its all within .

Dial your own number ...others may not exist !!💪😇

Lots of Love
Neha 

Failure- You are important too....

Failure- You are important too....

SUCCESS - This 7 letter word today has become the biggest parameter of defining an individual. 

I googled to find out what failure is - and the search says failure is "lack of success ". 

I googles what success is and I kept reading endless articles , quotes and experiences on success .

That's what failure is !!!!!

Failure is such a thing that even  google thinks its not important to describe it . 

What is success , how do know who is more successful than the other. 

We constantly keep bench marking, comparing and keep getting into this common and biggest race of mankind...to be labeled as successful. 

Any random person we see , seeming to be happy , wealthy and immediately tag him successful .

I want to ask this to everyone reading this article, in the race of being successful, have we dealt with our failures  honestly and with dignity . 

Or,  we have been so ignorant to our failures , that in-spite of knowing the reasons of failure we overlook the factors easily , and again walk up with our head held high , pretending as if nothing ever happened .

Well , I differ here...failure is the most important factor that gives a reality check ..Failure directly states - whatever we have been doing is not good  enough. 

Failure is  an achievement and an assurance at least we tried. 

We fail and a series of reasoning begins - i wanted to but i couldn't , i tried my best  but i couldn't ...my luck is not good enough etc .

Failure clearly says  - its completely yours....the silence you experience , the loss of desire , the happiness lost , the time that's gone-by  , the efforts that have gone in ..finally yield no result . 

The only one way to overcome failure is to be friends with it . Take care of  it , give it time , understand it and you can build up again .

Let's make it simple ...a small kid may not know what a hot pan is until he touches a hot pan . 

Once he has felt the impact of it , he would always stay away from all things that he sees or assumes is hot .  The impact teaches him and gives him the required experience to decide .

Similarly , the impact  that failure has in each of our lives , makes us realize what we shouldn't be doing and how can we protect ourselves from landing into the same zone again. 

Failure gives us the right experience to decode and move ahead . Be more cautious  , smart and aware the next time .

Treat and celebrate your failure - as from here the real journey begins. 

Failures are important too as they are our real teachers and judge us accurately and prepare us to be the best version of ourselves. 

Take your failures seriously and see the magic begins . 

Wishing luck !!!!

Thanks 

Neha 

Your Life In My Womb

From a small desire of having a baby, for the very first time, we as women think about a child. We imagine about creating a new life in our womb.

People said, once you become a mother everything will be normal, but only we women know as mothers -once we have a baby, normal is history. 

The wish to have a baby goes phenomenal as every day passes, and we keep thinking about you being a part in my womb. And there we come to know, you have become a part in the womb.

 Happiness comes in all forms but this one beats the rest.

2 small hands, 2 small feet’s, a very cute small face we see in our dreams.

Short listing, that one cute baby poster and to watching and reading all about having a child would take up most of our time. From giving up our favorite food, to sidelining perfumes, from giving up our most favorite attire to giving up on all that junk and yummy food...We as women give up all without a second thought. As an expecting mom, we do it all for you. The only thought running in our minds is -your comfort in my womb.

From talking to you every night, and nurturing you to the best of our ability, we women as mothers do it all. From quitting our favorite job, and hanging out we do it all for your well being in my womb.

From feeling the 1st movement of you like a butterfly inside, to all those kicks and lovely dance moves, words are incompatible to describe it all.

Only women can be blessed with experiences like these.

After you arrive in this world, what now excites a mother is all those 1st crawling, walking, talking, moments, calling out for maa and paa. Now, we realize why being a mother is the best feeling around.

To all wonderful moms out there, you have sacrificed the best of what you had to let them have the best of what they want. Your Sleepless nights, hassled days, the changes experienced and all the sacrifices made in daily life are all worth it. 

Motherhood is joyful, a dream that we live every day. So let us all as mothers thank our little one's for making us discover our inner strengths , true potential and making us what we are today. We are doing excellent and let's become the best moms. Feel proud and blessed, as we recreate life and give back to mankind and creation.  

Life and Relationships !!!

We are blessed with one wonderful gift from the Almighty -LIFE..

             L-Live
             I- Inspired
             F- For
             E- Ever

Live your life to the largest canvas you can, as life is to be lived once, live life king size.  Love, share, care, enjoy and be happy .
A happy mind can reach every zenith of success and make the 

Impossible -Possible.

Trust God and believe in your instincts, its your  guiding light.For every decision we make, there is an inner voice..Hear it feel it....live it and see how wonderful life will come across.

Like a mother who loves and sacrifices unconditionally for her child,  like a father who , works out of all limits for his child, like our mother nature which only believes in giving is what makes any relationship.

We all know, our favorite colors, our favorite food, favorite outfit that makes us happy we should also know what is the -"favorite factor" of every relationship.

We live in an ultra modern techno savvy era, where  we get up in the morning, look into our cell phones.,our  day starts and ends with news feeds , social happenings  , we often forget to realize that we are actually born to live every relationship.

 Relationships grow best with time .We need to give space and time for every relationship we build. It's one of the  most difficult task as a person , to make relations that will last for a lifetime .

Love ya 

Neha 

Love Writing....: your presence wherever I go…

Love Writing....: your presence wherever I go…: I carry your heart with me, I carry it in my heart I am never without it Anywhere I go you are always there …… My love exists for you……....

Love Writing....: Only if you Try!!!!!!!!!

Love Writing....: Only if you Try!!!!!!!!!: Only if you Try!!!!!!!!! One day I wish to see you achieve your Dreams…….. It may take sometime, it may take long, But God would you ask...

your presence wherever I go…

I carry your heart with me,

I carry it in my heart I am never without it

Anywhere I go you are always there ……

My love exists for you…….

My life is owed to you…….

My dreams speak about you ……

I have always felt you all around...

My eyes want to see you, when you are not around...

My hands want to touch you, when you are not close….

My fingers miss the space you shared with them….

I carry your presence wherever I go…

Every day, every night …

I think what would have my life been …

Without You…..

Tears roll out of my eyes, when I think of myself without you…

You are God’s most precious gift to me….

You belong to me …

As stars belong to the sky …As this moon belongs to the universe